Evelyn Woodward's 1st Letter to Lillian

Dear Lillian,

	While I was happy to see you again, I am very, very worried for you, 
my dear. I understand that you do not know what you want, and that this makes 
it difficult for you to get it. But, you are old enough that you should learn 
what you want, soon. I fear that, otherwise, by the time you do learn this, you 
may no longer be young enough to get it.

	Perhaps you might start by making lists. List what you do not want first. I 
think that this may be easier for you to do than to list what you do want. And, I think 
that you find that, as you identify what you do not what, what you do want will become 
more apparent to you.

	It will be better for you, of course, if what you want is to "settle down" with a 
good man, whether that man is Richard Cooper or someone else. It is swimming with the tide, 
not against it. But, if this is not what you want, then the sooner you realize it, the better.

	If you wish to flit about the world, this can be done. But, as you say, it is likely to 
be a lonely life -- unless you flit with those who will make you feel anything but lonely. Would 
you be happier, do you think, as a traveling companion for other young ladies? I could give you 
some pointers on this, but I fear that, for the more general question, my advice is sadly lacking. 
I am sorry. I do not wish to let you down. Perhaps your aunt might have some better advice?

	Believe me, I wish only the best and happiness for you, and I remain

										Your friend,
										Evelyn